Dear *|FNAME|*,
Can you believe today is the last day of the shortest month of the year? Yesterday was my mother’s birthday. I’m not entirely sure how she would feel about me sharing this with you—she was always a bit embarrassed to be remembered on her birthday.
My mother lived a controlled, guarded life. After losing her father at age six and growing up feeling “in the way” in a large blended family, she became a woman who identified deeply as “Mother,” yet used that role to crave validation. She exacted obedience and walled off our independence. Our relationship was strained for years until I eventually chose to protect my own hurting heart and stopped communicating with her.
(This image shows my mother on the left, with her mother. On the right is my (younger) self with my daughter – 4 generations)
Two years ago, she was killed in a car accident. Since then, I’ve done a lot of “heart-work” to navigate the conflicting layers of grief, regret, and the relief that I no longer had to try to fix what was broken.
My love for her remains strong. I learned so much from her—both the valuable principles she instilled and the lessons of what not to do. Looking back, I realize she taught me one of the most important lessons about the heart: frequency. I grew up in the shadow of her heart wall. Even when she didn’t speak her hurt or her insecurity, I felt it. This wasn’t just my imagination; it was my heart picking up on the electromagnetic signal she was broadcasting every single day. Through the lens of emotional healing, I now see that those walls were ancestral survival patterns she didn’t know how to put down.
** Ancestral Power
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Whether our mothers were our greatest teachers, our greatest warnings, or a complex mix of both, they provided the first guide for our own journey. But here is the truth I want you to carry today: That guide is not your destiny. You have within you an ancestral power and a deep-seated wisdom to give birth—not just to your baby, but to the kind of mother you choose to be. When we do this “heart-work,” we are engaging in generational clearing. We are making sure the “survival walls” of the past stop with us.
** New Vision Statement
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I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to everyone who took the time to participate in my recent market research survey (https://forms.gle/E78kK8oPcgiZWViR7) . As I continue to grow and evolve this practice, it is vital to me that I am building tools and resources that truly meet you where you are. I wanted to hear your stories, your hurdles, and the language that resonates with your soul as you navigate this transition.
One of the most beautiful takeaways was seeing how many of you felt a deep pull toward the word “ancestral” over “primal.” It confirms what I have felt: that motherhood isn’t just a biological event; it is a connection to a long line of wisdom and power. This feedback confirmed the creation of Two Heart’s Healing vision:
To transform the ancestral experience of motherhood by unveiling the ‘mother’s heart’ within every woman. We envision a world where pregnancy and birth are honored as sacred rites of passage, and where every mother trusts her body’s wisdom to move through her journey with clarity, spiritual resilience, and power.
Your insights are helping me make this vision a reality. And now, for some extra fun—I’m thrilled to announce our survey t-shirt winner: Samantha Peragis, who runs the North Quabbin Health Collaborative Postpartum Program! (https://www.northquabbinhc.org/nqhcpvp) Congratulations, Samantha! I’ll be reaching out to you shortly to get your gift sent your way.
** Book Nook: The Heart Code
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I eagerly awaited the opportunity to read Dr. Bradley Nelson’s (https://drbradleynelson.com/) newest book, The Heart Code (https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Code-Breakthrough-Method-Transform/dp/1250347432/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=190077152087&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.iiAsDqIt5Cs08SEMVUeIOa4UZQnrIM15IdZNAA1kx_j9-KNciGfaHSSTo6aelJ7–GxkRPOLXUz_T46_ZPXLb_IU95xzdJjHsclr4Gtv9UoA-D9CwESGT3YEQwg6G6DE7p44DQS7u3cbZq5KjuGW6WULucjClALrTxWRRz6BfbUlAoFt7e_Uaa66HyBHR8VF2Yg6jJii0cuRG4qgJo12n332h2LrSDABDZwpjXME23Q.PugKTJrKDGT34xRPqmY6XK-AmSXAlkWsnlNpQP476D4&dib_tag=se&hvadid=792648299880&hvdev=c&hvexpln=0&hvlocphy=1019006&hvnetw=g&hvocijid=11822457344739612844–&hvqmt=e&hvrand=11822457344739612844&hvtargid=kwd-2085454506413&hydadcr=25075_13836026_2441832&keywords=the+heart+code+book&mcid=427501ea963f355cb5e20ae6d248cf11&qid=1772244327&sr=8-1) . I was able to access it prior to printing as a practitioner, and it did not disappoint. The Heart Code dives into Heart Intelligence—the scientific fact that your heart has its own “brain” and generates an electromagnetic field 5,000 times stronger than your head-brain.
This book is filled with stories of individuals whose lives transformed after releasing their Heart Wall. It builds a bridge of connection with others, and provides direction and inspiration on the path forward into living full and beautiful life.
For you, as a pregnant mother, this is profound. Your baby is developing within your heart’s energetic field. They are physically and emotionally enveloped by your heart’s “signal.” When you clear the “static” of old trauma or inherited grief, you ensure that the signal your baby receives is one of pure, open strength.
** Journaling: A guide to your heart
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Before we look at how to clear these paths, I invite you to sit with these questions. Place your hand over your heart, take a deep breath, and consider:
* Which “ancestral frequencies” (fears, protections, or patterns) do I feel currently occupying my heart space?
* If I could give my baby a “signal of safety” that was entirely free of my own past or my mother’s past, what would that feel like in my body?
* What would my life look like—and how would I connect with my baby—if I lived with a completely open, ‘un-walled’ heart?
** Featured Package
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Reading about heart intelligence is the first step, but releasing the weight is where the legacy changes.
If you feel you are carrying walls that aren’t yours, I invite you to the Heart Wall Bundle. This 4-session journey is designed to identify and release the specific trapped emotions forming your Heart-Wall.
By clearing these barriers now, you are sending a literal signal of safety and peace through your body to your baby’s developing heart. It is the ultimate act of preparation: ensuring your child meets the most open, present version of you.
Together, we will identify the specific building materials in your wall and release them permanently. Let’s clear the path so you can fully embrace the vibrant energy of this New Year.
I invite you to gently begin dismantling the walls once built for your protection. I’ve designed the Heart Wall Bundle specifically for those ready to move out of survival mode.
* 4 Focused Sessions: 30 minutes each, dedicated to your heart’s healing.
* The Goal: We identify the specific “materials” your wall is built from and systematically release the trapped emotions.
* Support: You’ll receive an email summary after each session to track your journey toward an open, vibrant heart.
* Investment: $350.00
Heart Wall Bundle $350 (https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=33984276&action=addCart&clear=1&id=1856066)
** Looking Ahead
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As we turn the page into March, we also step into a month dedicated to Maternal Mental Health Awareness. While our ancestral wisdom gives us the blueprint for motherhood, we also know that the modern path can feel overwhelming, isolating, and heavy. This month, we are shifting our focus to the landscape of the maternal mind—honoring the raw reality of the “matrescence” transition. Throughout March, I will be sharing supportive information, curated recommendations, and grounding resources designed to help you navigate the emotional highs and lows of pregnancy and postpartum. My goal is to ensure you feel seen and supported, reminding you that caring for your mental well-being is the most profound act of love you can offer both yourself and your baby.